Updated: September 12, 2024
Among Dallas gentlemen’s clubs, some are noted for being distinctly unfriendly toward female patrons. This is not true at Bucks Cabaret, of course, but we understand any woman’s hesitation to join us for a good time, either at Bucks in Dallas or our location in Fort Worth.
So, how can a guy get his gal to go to a gentlemen’s club for date night? Should he? Is it a dangerous risk or the road to romance?
Confidence
You know your lady better than anyone else (you better!). If you know she feels confident, fresh and fierce about herself, a gentlemen’s club will not be a challenge to her. She will not feel like you are comparing her to the beautiful Bucks Cabaret dancers.
If, though, she has any confidence issues or body image problems, you may want to visit Bucks Cabaret for a short lunch, then come back another time for a longer dinner date. Your lady can get accustomed to the atmosphere and feel more confident.
Break the Routine
If you and your girlfriend, or your wife, have been together for a while, going to Bucks Cabaret together can bring a little zing back into your fling.
Men are mainly visual animals, so an evening watching the lovely ladies at Bucks can rev you up. For your girlfriend, she can pick up a few pointers by watching the dancers tease and titillate.
Green Eyed Monster
Obviously, you have to be very aware of your girlfriend’s frame of mind. Avoid taking her to a gentlemen’s club after a fight. You have to be clear about what you hope to get out of the evening. Jealousy, body-shaming or having dancers get too close for your girlfriend’s comfort can be major no-no’s.
In Control
Make sure your girlfriend, wife or partner knows she is in control of the evening. When she wants to leave, you leave. No argument, no pleading, just leave. You may think the evening was a bust, but she may be leaving because she wants to try out a few moves she learned from the professionals at Bucks Cabaret!
Tips for Going to a Strip Club With Your Girlfriend
Most guys think of the strip club as a safe haven where they can spend some time with their buddies without judgment. Maybe you even like going alone to just get away from the responsibilities of daily life once in a while.
If you’ve got a girlfriend though, especially an adventurous one, the thought of taking her with you to your favorite club has probably crossed your mind. While it might seem like a dangerous idea, it can work out if you play your cards right.
Don’t Suggest the Strip Club
Lists rarely start with a don’t, but when it comes to strip clubs and significant others, this one needs to be here. Even if you have an adventurous girlfriend, you need to wait for her to mention visiting with you, at least in some capacity.
If you think your girl won’t care if you ask, go right ahead. But at the very least, wait until you’re trying to think of fun date ideas or you pass a club on the highway.
Bring it up out of the blue and you might be spending the night in the doghouse instead of in bed with your girlfriend.
Do Make it a Date
Men that have girlfriend willing to go to the strip club with them need to realize that they’re taking a lady. That means you might need to modify your behavior, since you aren’t visiting with Jeff, Dave or whoever it is normally rides shotgun.
Instead of randomly suggesting you both going to the club one night when you have nothing to do, plan an exciting night out and make it a fun date. Schedule it for a weekend night so your girlfriend has a chance to dress up. You might even think about putting some effort in yourself.
Making a trip to the club a romantic date, even if it’s off the beaten path a bit.
Don’t Get Drunk
You can have a drink or two with your lady on date night if that’s something you both enjoy. What you don’t want to do is go from romantic couple that’s relaxed from a cocktail to the couple that’s arguing in the parking lot because you were staring at one girl more than all the rest.
It can be a delicate balance between having fun at the club and paying attention to your girlfriend, so make sure alcohol doesn’t make the situation worse. Have a drink, but remain sober, just in case.
Visit Bucks Couples Friendly Gentlemen’s Clubs
When you and your special lady are ready to try a date night at a gentlemen’s club, come to Bucks Cabaret either in Dallas or Fort Worth. We know you will both have a great time at Bucks, the best gentlemen’s club for couples.
